by Niabh » Fri Nov 10, 2017 12:10 pm
Dear Glenn Burnie,
Here is something I have noticed: you like to set yourself up as the one with all the answers in order to make others question their own conclusions. Then you use their hesitation as leverage to pry them open and insert your own beliefs like a cuckoo’s egg into their minds. You ply me with uncertainty, with the implication that I do not know what is important, that I ought to be sure before I take a step to the irrevocable. You say it with such portent and such promise that I nearly catch my breath, but then you say no more and leave the question hanging. Is it because you have no answer? Is it because the final step of this game is always to make the other one ask first? Or is the doubt itself your goal? You make me suspect it is the last. You doubt yourself, and so must sow uncertainty in others.
That you did not wish to answer my questions is reasonable. If you did not understand what was being asked, then that is my failing and none of yours, and you need not feel ashamed for it. But that you could not answer at all, that is troubling, for that silence is one I know very well, the sort that strangles. That silence can do so much worse harm than any speech, Glenn Burnie, and it rarely cures itself, but knowing its nature, I am wary of meddling with it, for fear I may do you more harm than good. Only remember that when your answer is silence alone, I cannot tell one reason from any other, and that, knowing you as I do, I am apt to assume that you are silent by choice.
It makes me wonder about our honesty. It is odd that I should be the one to uphold it, coming as I do from a place where it has little value. You have made me realize that I do. Because of you, I must be honest about what I am. It is a strange sort of honesty, but no less genuine for all its strangeness. Good neighbor for that, I suppose. It will be interesting to see how it serves me moving on. Perhaps you will have spoiled me for my own people, that I will always be human-touched. I wonder if that would please you at all.
More honesty: in the same spirit that I tried to come to our meeting without expectations, so did I try to come without too many questions. I felt very strongly that I did not want anything you did not offer freely, and also that to say as much would be no less than to impose pressure upon you to reveal more than you wished, which would defeat the whole experiment. I do know the difference between what is taken and what is given. Though there be no change in the thing in the hand, there is a change in the heart that cannot be overlooked. In giving there is power that is exchanged, that both may be enriched. In taking there is only power seized by one. This power is more than mere metaphor, but something that can be harnessed and channeled. This my people have always known. It is why we neither give nor accept gifts lightly—mayhap generously, to some eyes, but never lightly—and it is a habit among your own people that has some troubled me, that they attribute more strength to the hand that takes than the one that gives, and none at all to the one that receives. Do they know the power they squander? I cannot but think they might be more proof against other powers were they not so heedless of their own.
I think about this mysterious “between us” and wonder if all that is truly between us is the “between us,” this great gulf between your insistent but desperate humanity and my own confidence in my nature. I think it would be a shame if, after coming so far, we found that was all there ever was. It would be different if by acknowledging the gulf, we might bridge it, that there may be reconciliation, though what form that reconciliation might take, I could not say. I wonder on whose side it is, yours or mine (though I realize in truth that a gulf remains the same no matter which side one stands on). But even more, I wonder if what is between us is only destruction: that the only way you can believe you are still human is by proving your humanity can best me, and through me all the inhuman monsters that have undone you time and again. Or else you must let me destroy you, so that you can at last know the final, fragile limits of your own humanity.
If it were so, it would not surprise me. This is an old, old contention between your folk and mine, Glenn Burnie, deeper than I suspect you know—a river of blood that runs beneath the world, for more blood has been spilled on the face of the earth than the earth and all her oceans can hold. Moreover, it is a river that ran in you long before I came, going back to your old troubled times. Still more, it runs through your very race. Either they would be us, or they would tame us, or they would be rid of us altogether, but there is never a one who would can accept us, for to accept us would be no less than to accept their own limitations—a subject you have railed against on several occasions ere now.
I hesitate even to write this, for it seems so final, so bitter—and so easy for you to dismiss. Usually I do dread your tedious denials, but in this case, I welcome them. I want to know that I have read the signs wrong, for if you gave me any cause to believe rather than merely suspect, I would withdraw myself at once from this game of ours. I do not doubt that if this were truly your goal, you could readily discover another to test yourself against, but it will not be me.
Between us two is not only power and pride, but also feeling, with feeling being ever the more slippery and elusive of the three. I find a need to prove myself to you as well, that I am not some dread creature of your imaginings. I want to help you to find this thing you say will complete you, and if I cannot be any help, I would like to be of some comfort. I want to best you, but I want to best you in your own domain, by your own rules, to show you that they are not failproof, for well I know that you would take even the least glimmer of glamourie as a victory. This last feels like the rankest hypocrisy and goes against every grain of me, as well as every instruction I was given before coming here. But that same sense of rank hypocrisy is all that makes me feel I am in earnest about it. When that vanishes, I know I have been cheating. It is most vexing.
As for what you would have of all this, I still cannot tell. Is it as you say, that you want only to be trusted? That you must have that as proof you have moved on from what you were, and to be once more worthy to walk among men? If that be all, then for only the sake of kindness and friendship, for the challenges you have presented and for those you have withstood, for your bravery, for your gallantry, for all you have offered of yourself and the pain it cost you to do so, and for all that you have tolerated of me and my transgressions, I would grant it even before you did request it, and call it a bargain that you ask so little when I was prepared to offer much.
But I would say too, and sadly, that it is not something I can bestow like any mere favor—not because it is not in my power to give, but because it is not in your character to accept. You will strive to win it again and again: from me, from any other that crosses your path, from whatever distant hill you next perceive as an obstacle. That is another key on the belt of your jailor, and until you humble yourself to beg it from him, or steel yourself to steal it, there will be no victory for you, only relentless pursuit. That part of you is one I cannot trust, because you do not trust it either. Written thus, it feels even to me as if I am shifting the blame to your shoulders, and perhaps that is so. But it is the truth of my feelings and I offer it to you to abate or confirm, as you will.
At the same time, I know, and you must know, your place in all of this. We two together are a passing idleness. That we might learn a little from one another is no small thing, but my larger place is elsewhere. That is what should be important to me. That is what separates the princesses from the queens: princesses can afford their passing fancies, putting their hearts ahead of duty, but a queen never can. In spite of all your intentions, your wants, or my own fondness, I cannot give up myself. I belong to my people first, and must never risk belonging to any other, for a queen cannot be compromised. Even if there is no threat in you, danger can still come through you. You yourself are well aware of your own reputation. You have your own enemies and your own failings, your own cracks that might be exploited by others. You have direct attachments to your own Court and your own Crown, both of which might find interest in ours. Compared to what could be lost, you are not and never will be worthy. It gives me no joy to say that. Betimes I feel my own worthiness is but an accident of birth and blood, but that accident does not lessen my responsibility.
I wonder, then, if this be less a summation than a conclusion, for there seems no further step to take.
There, you see? That is a sentence that invites an answer.
Anything can be magic if you're gullible enough.